The Space Between Letting Go and Becoming
Some years aren’t about pushing forward. They aren’t about force, momentum, or relentless growth.
Some years are about quietly shedding what no longer fits.
This past year has felt like that for many of us. Not dramatic. Not flashy. But deeply honest.
A season marked by stillness, by uncomfortable clarity, and by subtle transformation happening beneath the surface.
A Year of Honesty and Inner Reckoning
There are seasons in life when forward motion feels stalled, not because we’re failing… but because something within us is being recalibrated.
This is the kind of year that asks different questions:
What no longer feels true?
What am I carrying out of habit rather than alignment?
Who have I outgrown, and in what ways have I outgrown myself?
These questions don’t demand immediate action. They ask for presence. They ask for listening.
And often, they ask for release.
Honoring the Wisdom of the Snake
Before momentum returns, there is wisdom in release.
Snake energy reminds us that not all growth is visible. That there are seasons devoted to shedding, letting go with intention, rather than force.
Like the snake, we release what once protected us but no longer fits. Not because it was wrong, but because we have expanded beyond it.
This phase is not the destination. It is the preparation.
Shedding is not an erasure of the past. It is an acknowledgement that the past has done its job.
Honoring What Is Ending
Before a new chapter begins, there is value in pausing.
In acknowledging the wisdom contained in every layer we’ve outgrown and paying homage to the versions of ourselves who carried us here.
The woman who stayed longer than she should have. The one who played small to belong. The one who said yes when she meant no.
She wasn’t wrong. She was learning.
And she deserves gratitude… not judgment.
Trusting What Is Becoming
One of the hardest parts of transition is trusting what we are growing into before it is fully visible.
This in-between space can feel slow. Disorienting. Unproductive.
But beneath the surface, something is organizing itself.
Clarity is forming. Values are sharpening. Boundaries are strengthening.
Growth doesn’t always announce itself with fireworks. Sometimes it arrives quietly, asking only that we stay present long enough to recognize it.
The Rise of the Fire Horse
If the snake teaches us how to release, the Fire Horse teaches us how to move.
Fire Horse energy is not passive. It is brave, alive, and forward-facing.
After a season of quiet shedding, this next chapter calls for embodied courage:
Choosing movement over hesitation
Letting desire lead instead of fear
Trusting your inner fire enough to act on it
The Fire Horse does not wait for certainty. She moves when the timing feels aligned… even if the path isn’t fully mapped.
This is a season of momentum rooted in self-trust. Of action that honors what you’ve released and are no longer willing to give energy to.
A new chapter is not just approaching. It is asking to be claimed:
Sometimes slowly. Always intentionally.
For now, may you allow yourself the grace of shedding what no longer serves, without urgency, without apology, and without needing to know exactly what comes next.
Fire Horse Rising
If you find yourself in this in-between space—no longer who you were, not yet fully who you’re becoming, Fire Horse Rising was created for you.
Beginning mid-February, this coaching experience is designed for women who have done the shedding and are ready to move forward with clarity, courage, and intention.
This is not about forcing momentum. It’s about learning how to move in alignment with your truth, supported by a grounded, intentional community.
If this season of transition resonates, you can sign up for the waitlist here.
